My notes from a presentation by Jon Henshaw, Co-Founder & Chief Product Officer Raven Internet Marketing (@henshaw)
If you build links the wrong way, Google will destroy everything you love. Kind of like this…
Good link building is hard. Relationships aren’t easy either. Let’s make them work together.
What do most people want from a relationship? They want to be heard and respected. A healthy relationship is where you treat others the way you’d want to be treated (Golden Rule marketing).
People do not want..
…to be sold something
…to feel like an object
…to talk about links
So how do you target someone from whom you’d like a backlink, without turning them into a target? Be genuine!
METHODOLOGY:
- Find websites that could provide you with a valuable link.
- Who are the people behind the sites?
- Follow the trails? Where else are they (social, blogs…)
- Google them.
- Find their followers and friends. FullContact helps you acquire a ton of info about social presence.
- Monitor them. Get RSS feeds, social streams, alerts
- Interact with them. Become visible in their world.
- Use spreadsheets or CRM to keep track of them.
- Keep contact & interaction records
- Keep records of which of these contacts ends up linking to you.
- Keep good notes. How did you meet? What has developed?
- Develop relationships naturally.
- Don’t overwhelm them.
- Stay on topic – not necessarily your topic. Don’t change the subject.
- Create a positive experience. Do things for others. Be there when you need them. Champion what they care about.
- Be patient or else. Don’t jump on “monetizing” the relationship too soon.
What’s the outcome of relationship link building?
- Real friends
- Ability to connect with friends of friends
- Social exposure
- And, of course: Natural links that reduce your Penguin phobia!
Thank you for your link building suggestions. I didn’t know that linkbuilding relationships can have such an impact.
Need help.
DO NOT WISH TO HAVE ANY PROBLEMS WITH GOOGLE.
What;s the best way to link my website without getting into any problems with Google?
Thank you,
Cassandra
So pretty much just Stalk. Stalking is the answer to building better links.
Jerit, if that’s your takeaway, you really didn’t get the author’s intent. This is simply networking for business benefit. Would you call a bunch of business people networking at a meetup of a conference lobby “stalkers”?
Sorry Mark, but I didn’t make this comment. I apologize. It seems someone had hacked my social media accounts. I wouldn’t leave an unprofessional comment like this. And the date and time of the comment is a give away, for me. I really like your article, and you have given great points on how to get back links, which is crucial for SEO.